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Saturday, July 22, 2023

A different approach to Transgender

 It seems to me that transgender rights are administered unequally across classes.  ‘Gender reassignment surgery’ is very expensive. What about all those who feel dysphoric about their gender but don’t have the thousands of dollars needed for surgery?  I would hazard a guess that those who can buy the surgery are a minute percentage of their lower-income siblings.

I hear the stories of children who knew at a very young age that ‘something was wrong’ inside them.  They did not share their gender’s interests.  Boys who wanted more colorful or frilly clothes, and who preferred playing with dolls than ball and bat.  Girls who preferred to climb trees, wrestle, and learn to use tools under the hood of a car were traditionally called ‘tomboys’, but with budding breasts were forced into a different social class.

These children suffer depression as they grow towards maturity.  Why is that?  No doubt they experience bullying, name calling, and ostracizing from both sides of the gender line.  As a teenager experiencing new hormones, depression can occur, it is part of the experience for many, but for sexually dysphoric youth it is deeper and more terminal. 

Parents seek help, when they see their child suffering this treatment.  They may assume that the medical professionals have an answer, so they haul these young people off to a doctor’s office.  There they may find antidepressants, or hormone blockers.  For more desperate patents, treatments of estrogen or testosterone are condoned.

One day it occurred to me that maybe our culture is heading down the wrong path.  After all, theologians who have studied such things tell us that we choose where we will be born, in order to work out our path to spiritual awakening.  We choose our family, our siblings, our gender.  That being the case, how is it possible that we made a ‘mistake’ in the gender we chose?  Sorry, folks, but I don’t see that as a possibility.  We were born with certain personality traits, yes.  To assume that means we don’t have the body to match the personality does not make sense.  Is medical intervention the answer?  Only because we are thinking too small, too ‘within the box’, can we not see our way clear to a more equitable solution.

It is society’s reaction to the choices of these dysphoric people.  I see in my mind’s eye a feminine person, with dress, ruffles and flare, in full makeup, and a beard. 

What about the female to male transition?  I see far less of that on reality TV shows.  It is much easier for a woman to pass as a man, externally.  Does she want to perform like a man sexually?  Lesbians have been using strap-ons already, so why would surgery be necessary?  And when else does a penis come into play?  In a locker room?  That, again, is a societally-conditioned response.  Does that require surgery to change?

I envision a society, a culture, where people can express themselves naturally, without fear of being criticized, ridiculed, ostracized.  I don’t think it necessary for an athlete to compete outside their biological gender to feel fulfilled.  Boys feel more comfortable running with a group of girls?  Let them!  Just not when competing in the Olympics.  Girls want to run with the boys? Work harder in the gym.  Again, not in the Olympics.

If such a culture existed, a person could learn to live with the hormones they were biologically programmed to have, without feeling dysphoric. 

You get the idea.  Not necessary to belabor it.  I do wonder where I have missed the mark, since I am not part of this gender-dysphoric community.  Were I to write my biography without specifying my gender, it might well be ambiguous.  I have not lived a traditional role.  That, however, does not qualify me to speak for this community.  There may be things I am missing.  Surely that is so.

I never hear this subject debated.  I hear that people are fighting for their LGBTQ rights.  I would like to hear the terms of that movement extended.  If society accepted people who are ‘different’, if the roles dictated by society were to be reevaluated and modified, would people feel the need to be so vocal, so ‘in-your-face’ about their differences and different needs?  Would they still feel the need to organize marches?

My voice is not loud enough to engender a conversation over this different perspective.  I wish it were, because the unhappiness of such a large number of people disturbs my spiritual tranquility.  I would rather see a solution that comes from the minds and hearts of people, from growth in spiritual awareness, than from the medical profession mangling the beautiful human body.

Wednesday, July 05, 2023

Proposed feud solution

 

Todo con cerca o nadie con cerca

 

Para alcanzar paz entre vecinos, para vivir en paz y harmonía, se requiere:

A.      Humberto Diaz Rodríguez (Beto) cerca su terreno particular por orilla lado nordeste, separando terreno público y terreno privada, con portal cerrado que da acceso cuando se necesita.  Este alambre será terminado por 15 de Julio, 2023

B.      Por medio de vecinos buenos y mostrar buena voluntad, Beto ofrece compartir usa del estanque (lo cual es por terreno público, pero lo mayor parte coloque en el terreno contiguo del privada de Luz de Compasion) por lo cual tiene certificado usa agricultura del Conagua,) el parte este entre el arbole grande y orilla.

C.      El terreno público será apartado entre el parte que contigua del terreno de Beto and del Luz de Compasion a la latitud 24°35’16” N 104°47’28” W

El alambre que se construyó por Luz de Compasion será reestablecido como fue antes de Beto lo movió en mayo 2023.

 

D.       Al caso de Beto intenta hacer más larga el estanque que existe en porción de terreno público contigua al terrena de Luz de Compasion, se hace al sur del alambre este, sin molestar alambre suyo. 

 

Le ley Federal que dicta este terreno se encuentra aquí:  Articulo 27 y Articulo 113, Constitución de México

 

 

 

 

Firmado por                                                                                                     Testigos:

 

Humberto Diaz Rodriguez                                                                           1.

 

Luz de Compasion (Satina Anziano)                                                        2.

 

water feud and ineffective law in Mexico

 

Hollywood found their own gold mines in developing stories about the American west and feuds over water and land rights.  Here we are, in the twenty-first century, living out these same feuds.  Society has grown, we have electric cars and AI, but humanity continues running on its own basic instincts.

I have written here in this blog about the water feud with the neighbor on my north side, Juanito.  The lovely meadow below his property lies fallow, while he locks his horse up in a hot tiny yard of an ancestor’s abandoned adobe house with dried weeds for food.  The poor creatures bones grow more and more pronounced.

The neighbor on the south side continues to flex his muscles unchecked.  The way the politics are set up here, a small hamlet like El Pozole gets to elect for a three-year term someone who will function as the ‘law’.  When Gloria held that post, I mirrored the other old ladies in calling her the Mayor.  Now that elected post has fallen to Beto, who is called the Judge.  He got the vote, in my opinion, because the other candidates running were various brothers of one very large family, and loyalties of the rest of the village were split among the brothers.  In other words, this unpopular candidate won by default.

Barred from Juanito's pleasant meadow, the horses still needed a safe place to graze.  Their corral is just prairie dirt before the rainy season.  I needed access to the public land contiguous to my land.  Beto, at the time this hectare was sold to become Luz de Compasion, put up fences around that piece of public land and applied for a water permit for exclusive use of the little pool of water that lies within its borders.  I asked him to be a good neighbor and let me use my piece of land, if I would enclose the south side with a fence so my horses would not stray to his land.  He said no.  I called upon the powers that be in the municipality, that being an office called ‘sindico’, and a mediator judge.  The word translates to ‘union’, but I have no idea what factions comprise it.  First two guys from that sindico office came, to assess my complaint.  They were stunned to see the public lands enclosed by fences. 

People live here as they did one hundred years ago.  What laws may have changed in the intervening years seem to have escaped the awareness of these people.

These guys called another meeting, such as we had when Juanito complained about my use of his well.  Beto also attended that first meeting, because I was asking for access to my land.  The lady judge, Juanita, came to this meeting, with her assistant Chayito.  Begrudgingly, Beto agreed I could open up the fence that separated my land from the public land, as long as I put up a fence on the south border confining my horses to ‘my’ public land.  The subject of the little pond arose, I asked for a small piece of it for use by my horses.  He apparently agreed to share.

Sadly, nothing was ever written up.  No notes, no reports were ever recorded.

It took me a week to assemble the materials and the workers, but the fence was done while Beto was coincidentally visiting his brother in California.  He was secretive about the length of his visit, telling one person one thing and his boss another. 

Beto returned, and was not happy with the results.  Another meeting was called, and again Beto agreed that I could continue access of a small portion of the pool. 

Beto then proceeded to tear down my fence, and move it about ten meters further north into what should have been the land contiguous to my property, thus cutting me off from access to the pond.  What treachery.  I cut the barbed wire, so my horses could continue their occasional five-minute frolic in the water.  But then there was no barrier to keep them from then proceeding onto the public land contiguous with Beto’s private land, and, uhoh, his private land, because he never enclosed that with fencing.

Beto is jealously protecting this pond, 'for his cows'.  These cows come to this three-hectare site only for a few months each year, about ten of them, during rainy season.  They have a tank of water for drinking, which is on Beto’s private land, provided by the municipal irrigation water system that happens to be located on this piece of land.  Since he never enclosed his property with fencing, the cows have access to this large span of property.  These are not dairy cows, but saleable meat on hoof.

There are laws governing this Federal land.  This land is a flood zone, an eco system.  The laws governing its use, so that the flood zone maintains its function.

It is to remain open, no one can construct barriers (such as fences).  It is not to be used for commercial purposes, such as grazing cattle meant for market.  The natural springs and pools appearing there are not to be interfered with.  No damming them, no expanding them.  No permits are to be issued for private use of their waters.

Another section within the Mexican Constitution pertraining to water rights says that if the pool of water, for which you obtained a certificate for private use, is not being used as intended and stipulated in the certificate, the certificate should be invalidated.  This pretty much describes the situation, but is there any force behind this law. 

There is the law, and then there is Beto.  'And never the twain shall meet.'

I have tried the legal process.  Four times, the mediators have come out to the property to meet with my neighbors and settle these disputes.  The terrorist on one side has won.  I have access to my well, but I do not put my horses down into that lovely meadow anymore.  He does not put his hapless horse down there either, unfortunately.

Beto, however, is recalcitrant. He may have paid lip service to an accord allowing me a little access to ‘his’ pond, but out of the sight and hearing of the mediation committee he has reneged.  And so it is time to call upon the true law of the land.  Not the municipally sanctioned ‘syndicates’, not the mediation judge, not the police.  The organized crime group is the only reliable muscle.  This is what I have always been told, and so I am putting this truth to the test.  I have taken my complaint to the storefront in town where the chiefs hold court.  I had to wait many hours over various days until a chief was free to speak with me, but I finally got a hearing.  He has called a meeting between me and Beto for two days hence.  I reacted with fear at the words, but he reassured me that it would be fine.  I really don’t want to try to talk with this man, Beto, again.  His evil is so intense that it scares me.

I am surprised to hear that mediation was also a first step with these people.  I think they take their responsibility seriously.  Let us hope so!  I will ask for deadlines for the fence to be built, so that he can not agree to the face and drag his heels when pressure is off.  I had been told that the MO for enforcement was that the first step was a certain number of whacks on the back with a bat, like three or five.  If the person does not comply after that, a limb might be broken.  This is the rumor.  Now I will find out the reality.

And two days later, I arrive primed for confronting Beto yet again, with the map and ‘acuerdo’ in hand at the little storefront with the sign ‘SIX’ above the door.  The young man who sits at the horseshoe desk in the unlit back of the store called his chief when I arrived.  There was no Beto in attendance.  And so I was told, once again, that I needed to come back again tomorrow, same time.

I have to wonder just how much attention this ‘chief’ is giving this situation.  Does he not know that this situation has already been mediated four times, with the same null results?  I have documented in a nutshell the summary of these talks, the reasonable solution.  I have decided that I will not again endure facing Beto, who lies as easily as breathes.  If this alternate justice system cannot deal with this situation either, then I have to give up, surrender, be the victim.

Yesterday I went down to the riverbank to explore more closely how things stand now.  Beto has reinforced the fence he put up on my side of the public land, without access to the water for my horses.  I climbed over to his side of the fence, and took pictures of the fence lined up with LdeC buildings seen clearly through the trees.  His boldness is brazen. 

The horses followed me down to the riverbed.  I did not tie them.  I cannot leave them there tied, because they wander and wrap the ropes around shrubs and trees, until they can no longer move.  I left them there, and went about my investigating.  When it was time to go back home, I looked for the horses.  I did not see them.  I followed the hoof prints on the soft ground, walking quite a way to new turf.  On the other side of the riverbank the fencing is in poor condition, so that the horses crossed inland.  I continued a ways in towards the edge of the broad riverbank.  I climbed up the embankment there, seeing that there was a fence line perpendicular to the rise.  That is when I saw two mules, inside the fence across the river.  My horses were so excited to discover these new friends, they romped and tossed their heads, vocalizing.  In their excitement I was a little worried they might trample me, they were so including me in their joy.  I called them, I put a rope on Cinderella, and they followed me back down the embankment towards the river.  I tempted them with pieces of carrots.  And then they had enough of me, and ran back to their new friends, trailing rope in the mud.  I knew there was no use in chasing them, so I went back home.  The humidity is high at this time of year. The outing had worked up quite a sweat, and so I jumped into the shower and focused on getting to my meeting.

Later in the day, when the horses did not return on their own, I walked back down to the river.  The land down there is thick with shrubs.  I wondered if the dogs and I had left enough scent on the trail for the horses to find their way back.  They heard me coming, and whinnied before I saw them.  I called to them, and met them half way.  I lead them through the thicket of overgrowth to the hole in the fence, and then they went on ahead of me across the overgrown field, up the embankment, and straight to their corral.

I learned that I could indeed allow them to roam free at the river’s edge, but I would need to clearly mark the way home for them.  I have a roll of tape like the police use to rope off a crime scene.  I will have to string it along the fence opening and on both sides of a path through the bush to the clearing.  Hopefully that will do the trick.  They will always come home at sunset, if they can find the way, for their evening measure of alfalfa.  In truth, they had more surprises for me.

The next I let them out of the corral again.  They grazed for a while in the newly growing grass, it being rainy season.  They eventually wandered down the embankment to the riverbed.  They must have retraced their steps to the two donkeys.  Later in the day I went to check on them, and also to try to string up the tape to guide them home.  I wandered up and down the river bank, but did not see them.  I called, but they did not answer.  I did not see a lot of fresh hoof prints, nor droppings.  I went back to the house, curious, a little concerned, but without energy to walk a few miles to track them down.  I opened the roadside gate for good measure, just in case they followed the riverbed to the road crossing.  All I could do now is wait, and trust.

Late in the afternoon, approaching dusk, they popped up over the embankment and moseyed on up to their corral, where I had laid out some alfalfa.  I closed the gate.

Having decided that I would blow off the day’s appointed meeting with Beto and the ‘chief’, I was feeling unsettled.  I could just imagine Beto showing up, the two of them having a cozy meeting, and deciding it was not necessary to do anything further to appease the old lady.  I felt the need for a go-between, to pursuade the 'chief' to see my position more clearly.  There were three people who had suggested using the malandro option.  I thought about each one, and then chose to approach Jose. 

Jose, the Carpenter, is an interesting character.  I first met him in the parking lot of Aurrera, the Walmart subsidiary.  I had just parked, when a motorcycle pulled up next to me.  Jose greeted me with a friendly smile, and struck up a conversation.  I saw a middle-aged man with a very Italian face, a nose reminiscent of my father’s.  He introduced himself as a carpenter, and gave me his phone number.  I later on did try him out on a few projects.  His work proved unreliable, but he grew on me as a friend.  One time I went away for three weeks, and he ‘housesat’ for me.  I thought that meant he and his wife would move out to my ranch and take a break in the countryside.  When I returned I found my cats well fed, my plants watered, but no sign that anyone had been in the house.

That is when I finally asked him about his limp.  It was obvious.  He spun some story about falling off his motorbike, but when he rolled up his jeans I saw a swelling or growth.  The word carbuncle came to mind.  It was not the raw wound of a fall, but more a chronic condition. 

As the months and year went by, I began to see him more and more on his motorcycle, carrying envelopes and small packages.  When I visited his small shop I saw less activity there.

One day we passed on the street and stopped to chat.  He said he was working at the municipal building.  As is typical here, there were no details, no specifics.  It was left to me to figure out from clues just what was going on.

It has been three or four years now since that first meeting.  Jose is a regular fixture at the municipal building.  My Pozole friend, Rita, sits in a anti room, perhaps she is a secretary to whomever sits in the office at the front of the building.  She has established that Jose and I are friends, so anytime I pass by and greet her she informs me that Jose was just here, or is coming right back.  I guesses he functioned as an official currier.

At dawn I sent him a message asking him to call me, as I would like to ask a favor.  He called me around 9:30.  I tried to explain what I wanted, but it was too difficult over the phone.  I quickly dressed and drove down to town, before he disappeared again.  I knew from past conversations that he had friends among the organized crime groups.  It appeared to me that everyone did, these people are well integrated into the community.  I asked him to speak with this ‘chief’ for me, to explain to the chief that my presence was not needed at yet another mediation meeting with Beto; there had been four attempts so far, through the official process with municipal ‘sindicos’ and the judge.  Jose had been in close contact with the sindicos throughout, and new all the details of those four meetings.  All I asked was that he speak with the guy by phone. 

It is human nature, isn’t it.  People never want to say ‘no’ to your face.  This was the task I needed done, no other.  I pleaded with him, if he couldn’t do it, just tell me.  Don’t tell me ‘tomorrow’, or ‘I’ll see’, or ‘I know a guy’.  I could have saved my breath.  He was silent for long moments, looking off to the distance as we sat just inside the entrance to the municipal building, on the two chairs before the reception/information desk under the stairwell.  He turned to me hopefully, ‘Maybe the President can help?”  The recently elected president of Canatlan, Angela, is also wife to a prominent member of the organized crime group.  I would be embarrassed, importuning, to think that she would care about my piddling problem.  True, Beto was an elected official who was totally abusing his office, but in the greater scheme of things what did it really matter.

I gave him a copy of the acuerdo, and the map from Google Earth, and left.

Over a number of days, and many hours sitting in their storefront waiting, in the end it came to nothing.  Perhaps if I had offered a significant amount of money, I might have gotten attention.  I did mention a payment, and was told that this was not expected.  The 'chief' arranged a meeting between me and Beto, which I felt was totally unnecessary but, whatever.  I turned up at the appointed time; Beto did not, nor the 'chief'.  That was the end of that.

I accept that my horses will have no water when they are down on the riverbed meadow.  There was a break in the public fence leading to the river, through which the horses could escape, cross the river, and wind up on the other side of the sierra.  I innocently expected that they would always come home at the end of the day.  One day, however, they did not.  At dawn I drove around, up into the sierra, to the farm where the donkeys live, but I did not see my horses anywhere.  What more could I do.  I waited.  Sure enough, in the afternoon Tocho came roaring up to my door on his motorcycle.  He started with the usual, 'I could call they police', 'they are causing damage, who will pay' kind of rhetoric.  That blew past, and I asked where they were and could I pay next week, as I was awaiting a pension check.  I changed my shoes and hopped in the car, without stopping for ropes.  He led me to a fenced in hillside.  The horses were on the horizon.  I called to them.  They came ambling down towards me, while Tocho waited and watched, off the side.  We opened the gate, the horses followed, and turned right.  My car and that way home was to the left.  Gosh.  I rushed home and grabbed some rope and returned, but by then they had disappeared.  I drove further in the direction they had walked, and realized that there is a section of the riverbank, on the opposite side from my farm, that had no fencing.  By the time I got home, the horses were in the stable munching their way through a bale of alfalfa.

With the post hole digger and a roll of barbed wire in hand, I tried to fix that part of the fence.  There was about twenty feet that needed shoring up.  I worked all morning, but just could not manage to get the poles to stand up, without cutting all the wires and starting from scratch.  I gave up.  Next day, I returned to the fence line and dragged dead branches of trees.  These seem to be the trim left over from cutting down a tree to use as a fence post.  Big gobs of smaller branches and twigs heading in all directions.  I pulled them all over to the fence line and laid them up against it.  I was able to build enough of a barrier, so that now the horses cannot escape to the river.  Surprisingly, they now seem to be willing to spend hours down there.  In the past, I would want them to go down there but after an hour, they would return.  The rains have come since then, and greened up the place.  Maybe that is why.

The fight is over.  Their side has won.  It is all meaningless egoistic chest thumping in the end.  The horses are fine, when they are thirsty they know their way back to the corral and the water trough there.  Meanwhile, they have turned the farm into a lovely pastoral scene.  The rains have greened up the fields, their grazing has left them well-trimmed, .Luz de Compasion now looks like a lovely park, which is how I had envisioned it years ago.  Life is good.